Sara Carton tells Ben Mezzenga why mismatched expectations and red flags destroyed her Love Is Blind romance.

Did their separation follow different wavelengths?

Sara Carton just revealed on Love Is Blind season 8 how things went apart with Ben Mezzenga.

Sara couldn’t say “I do” on what should have been their wedding day as Ben seemed off the wavelength she required.

Then Ben suggested staying together and keep working to strengthen their relationship.

Startled, Sara brushed it off with a “we’ll see,” but later told PEOPLE his recommendation seemed very rude.

Might confused messages bring about their doom?

Sara said there’s no incentive to keep on with the relationship when you reject the notion of marriage.

She felt it illogical to keep their relationship going in spite of all the expectations the program established.

They even shared a few weeks after the wedding day before things started to go apart even further.

Ben unexpectedly stopped everything, just as they were to move in together in Nashville for her temporary work.

Before everything collapsed, were any red signs overlooked?

Sara said she had seen Ben exhibit multiple red flags well before the wedding.

One of these warning signals came from a TikHub video showing a lady sobbing over what Ben subsequently revealed was about him.

Stories of his sending ladies YouTube business cards to increase his page also abound.

These events made her wonder if Ben was really ready for marriage or on the program for the right motives.

Did abrupt behavior expose his actual goals?

Following a conversation about their future, Sara remembered an incident wherein Ben deleted her from the Find My Friends app—an act of great significance.

His quiet move left Sara feeling misled and convinced about his intentions as he was out with pals playing a game.

She confirmed her doubts that there was more to the tale by disclosing that this sudden change gave her the clarity she needed on who Ben really was.

Is there any chance for later on reconciliation?

Sara acknowledges that part of her had hoped things would work out, even with all the conflicting signals and nasty behavior from Ben.

She conjectured that there could be a possibility if life reverted to normal free from continual upheaval.

She does, however, strongly feel that a marriage proposal should not be accepted lightly and that his actions made it unlikely for a future together.

On his end, Ben said he felt the relationship was already finished when Sara departed Nashville and expressed remorse for not having more in-depth talks.

Quick Facts – Love Is Blind Season 8 Split

• Ben wasn’t on her wavelength, so Sara omitted saying “I do.”
• Sara was insulted when Ben advised remaining together.
• They lived together for a short while, but everything fell apart when Ben called off it suddenly.
• Red signals like YouTube cards and a TikHub video put Sara on alert.
• Both voiced remorse and irritation, wondering about their actual compatibility.