From crazy days to a new reality in the U.S., see how Sarper’s life changed after meeting Shekinah on 90 Day Fiancé.
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Ever pondered how life would turn out without a twist?
Since landing his K-1 visa and traveling from Turkey to the United States, Sarper, the 90 Day Fiancé star, has been reevaluating his history.
Admitting that his previous way of life was far but traditional, he considered what life could have looked like if he hadn’t met Shekinah in a recent discussion with PEOPLE.
His open reflections expose layers of change and guilt over his “bad boy” days.
Inquiring about his initial impression?
Sarper confessed all his secrets and said, “I was such a bad boy,” on their first date. I had a crazy life.
Early on, he also cautioned Shekinah that he was not wanting to settle down; this was a comment he later said had some appeal.
Shekinah, however, saw it as a challenge—a conundrum she felt she could solve by reducing his sharp edges.
Do you find yourself wondering about the difficulty of personal change?
Shekinah presented a distinct perspective even though Sarper said she enjoyed the task of changing him.
She sensed deep down he yearned for a shift from his self-centered habits, behind his defiant exterior.
This was a turning moment; his former “professional narcissist” approach progressively gave way to a fresh sensitivity for her emotions.
Fascinated with the way the change unfolded?
Sarper now acknowledges that his life looks somewhat different following their marriage.
“I see her like myself,” he says, meaning that even if it puts him under additional strain, her happiness immediately raises his spirit.
He remarks cynically that if he could turn back time, he may have given Bumble a go, implying the turbulent mix of tension and pleasure they currently share—a radical break from his formerly “peaceful” existence of low expectations.
Still wondering if the turmoil is really worth it?
When the pair considers their path, the discussion becomes lighthearted.
Though Shekinah teases him for his involvement in their problems, Sarper laughs about his present situation and rates the mood of his life on a quirky scale.
Their back-and-forth captures the emotional rollercoaster defining their relationship—a combination of high stakes and friendly ribbing that keeps things interesting on and off screen.
Quick Facts: 90 Day Fiancé’s Sarper
- Sarper left Turkey with his K-1 visa acquired and headed to the United States.
- He came clean on their first date about leading a wild “bad boy” life.
- Before meeting Shekinah, he kept a “professional narcissist” outlook but transformed.
- Their changing connection is characterized by real obstacles as well as lighthearted banter.
- The special chemistry of the relationship is a major focus of 90 Day Fiancé.