Scott Porter’s simple marriage secret: regular check-ins with wife Kelsey create lasting Hollywood love.
Scott Porter has been quietly building a rock-solid marriage with Kelsey Mayfield since 2013, and their approach is refreshingly down-to-earth.
They first crossed paths on the “Friday Night Lights” set—he was starring in the show while she was a cheerleader at the University of Texas, not a casting director as previously thought PEOPLE.
After 12 years together, they’ve figured out what truly works.
Their secret? Simple, honest check-ins.
“She needs me, and we always just check in with each other,” Porter recently shared with PEOPLE.
No relationship gurus or complicated strategies—just genuine connection.
Does regular communication really make that much difference?
You bet. While schedules get packed and distractions multiply, Scott and Kelsey make each other a non-negotiable priority.
Their check-ins aren’t elaborate—they’re practical and real.
Can such a straightforward approach actually work long-term?
While many famous couples rely on grand gestures or professional help, the Porters show that small, consistent actions build stronger foundations than flashy romantic moments.
What happens when life throws curveballs?
Through industry pressures and raising their two children—son McCoy (9) and daughter Clover (7)—they’ve maintained their bond by treating their relationship as a true partnership rather than something running on autopilot.
Why don’t more couples follow their lead?
Many relationships struggle because partners assume they know what the other needs without asking.
Scott and Kelsey skip the mind-reading game completely by simply checking in with each other regularly.
Their approach—mutual support and consistent communication—might seem too basic to be effective.
But often the best solutions are hiding in plain sight, no relationship expert needed.
Whether you’re struggling to connect with your partner or just want to strengthen what’s already working, Porter’s advice cuts through the noise: check in, be present, and truly listen. Sometimes, that’s all it takes.